💌 Daily matches and icebreakers

Three new picks every day, and prompts that make the first message easy.

Daily matches

Every day Matches shows you three people picked for you. We look at:

• your answers to six quick values questions (weekends, faith, kids, money, where you would live, first dates),
• what you are both looking for (something serious, casual or friendship),
• how far apart you are, and whether they are verified.

Wave to anyone you like or skip them. Someone you already matched with is not shown again, and nobody repeats within two weeks. Answer the values questions at the bottom of the page for better picks.

Icebreaker prompts

Add up to three prompts to your profile in Account, for example "My perfect Lagos Sunday is…". When you wave at someone, you can reply to one of their prompts so your first message already has something to talk about.

Last updated 6 Nov 2026