📍 Plan a safe meetup

Agree on an approved public place, and check-ins and SOS start for both of you.

When you are ready to meet someone in real life, use Safe meetups. You both need to be verified and matched.

1. Choose your match, what to do (coffee, lunch or a walk), an approved public place, and a time at least 30 minutes away.
2. They answer Yes, let's meet or Not this time. No reason is shown if they say no.
3. When they say yes, each of you gets a plan in Date safety, with check-ins and an SOS button.
4. Copy your private link from Date safety and send it to a friend you trust.

Only public places approved by our team can be chosen. See Safe dating and Date safety and SOS.

After you meet

A couple of hours later we ask privately whether they showed up and whether you felt safe. They never see your answers, and safety concerns go straight to our team.

Last updated 9 Nov 2026